Monday, July 8, 2013
Yesterday, my son had his first communion. We are not Catholic so this was not the "first communion" in that sense but it was the first time my son has participated in the sacrament of communion at our church.
One thing I noticed, right away, was how he observed his dad and I. He watched each of us closely. Our posture. How we held the elements. Then within an instant, he was sitting holding his elements exactly as we were. I caught his eye and he smiled broadly as if to show me he was ready, like we were.
This struck me and has continued to touch me ever since. The rest of the day was normal but I was on guard. Thinking about my every move.
How do I react when my kids ask me for something? What is my posture? Tone of my voice?
What is my "go to" expression when they ask something I'm not too enthused to answer?
Where is my heart?
I asked all of this because it all matters. Not just on the big things like communion.
My son and daughter are building their cues on how to live by the way I live.
Am I grateful?
Am I humble?
Am I fearless?
Am I real?
Those are all traits I'd love to be know for but do I live them? Daily?
Well I can look no further than my own kids to see the answer.
Be the people you want your kids to be. Best parenting advice ever.