Monday, July 15, 2013
We all have them.
Hundreds daily, tens of thousands weekly, yet we often don't even realize it.
Many think that ours are more important than those of others.
Some criticize those of everyone else and never reflect on our own.
Some of us avoid them at all costs, yet our avoidance is actually a selection.
Many think ours do not effect others, while some folks make all theirs based on others.
Some of us barrel into ours heart first, thinking later.
At any given moment, we have been all of the above as it relates to choices. Choices are plentiful and that is especially true in the United States of America. However, it is important to focus only on our own choices. They are really the only ones we truly have control over. They are the only ones we should be discussing extensively. Our own relationship with choice really determines how our lives go. Clearly, many things happen outside of our control but we choose how we face those things, how we move through them.
I have been especially challenged this year with this concept in every role in my life, wife, mom, marketer, and public servant. This past week, no less than 4 times, in interactions with others, I acknowledged and owned that I could have made a better choice. I fully own my choices and spend a great deal of time examining them. My theory is that we'd have a much more peaceful and enlightened society if everyone took some time to look at and own their choices in life. If we all paused to acknowledge them, examine them and learn from them - I am certain we'd all be healthier in every way.
Take a moment to reflect on the last week and the choices you made. Can you see areas for improvement? Can you foresee opportunities this week to make better choices? Review all areas of your life, personal and professional.
Let's all make an effort to choose more wisely how we live.