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| The snow covered tree outside my front window |
Fall is my favorite season from start to finish. This season gives way every year to Winter and its final days have always given me pause to reflect on the upcoming process that winter brings. Snow falls and brings about a natural slowing down of every thing. Winter is a time for hibernation and the almost "death" of all growth.
This December as the first snow fell upon us, my personal life as I have known it for the last 16 years completely "died". After more than a year of knowing my marriage was over and the final decision to make it official, the day of the first snow in 2016 marked the first full week of our new normal of not living as a foursome. We are working daily on the new family dynamics. Holiday traditions as we've known them have to be reimagined and executed all once.
If I am honest, it is way harder than I ever imagined. This time of year is a constant reminder of our life as we've known it and the excruciating process of what we know and love hibernating. Shutting down.
Dying.
Winter is a chance for everything to stop and just be. And that's exactly what we need right now.
As I hit the final month of this year of recalibrating my life - my womanhood, my motherhood, the relationship with my former life partner and how I operate as an entrepreneur in my new normal - I have a full appreciation for what Winter really is.
It is not death for the trees, flowers or grass beneath the snow cover. It is the full stop of activity among them. They are quiet. Still. And undisturbed for a season.
That is how I move into this Winter. Ready for the quiet, still, undisturbed time to reflect on all the changes in our lives at this time. Rested from a respite island vacation. Replenished by time with my kids and my thoughts. Knowing full well what awaits me at the thaw.
New life.
New ideas.
New energy.
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